Planning · Your wedding day

Your wedding day, timed with care.

Choose your ceremony style, travel, photos, speeches and music notes. IrishWeds will create a calm, conservative order of the day you can copy into Notes, WhatsApp, email or a supplier brief.

Principle

This planner deliberately adds extra time. A wedding day nearly always needs room for greetings, travel, photos, coats, buses, weather, and guests moving between spaces.

Start with the ceremony

Your ceremony

Couple’s names, optional

Used only to personalise the timeline you copy.

Ceremony type

Ceremony start

Dinner time, if known

People needing hair and makeup

Include the bride and any bridesmaids or bridal party members getting hair and makeup. This adjusts when morning preparations should begin.

Travel time from preparations to ceremony

mins

Travel time to the reception

mins

Ceremony and reception are at the same venue. We will still allow time for guests to move from ceremony space to drinks reception.

Photos · speeches · flow

Photos, speeches and pace

Choose the moments you want to allow for. We add realistic breathing room so the day does not feel rushed.

Photography plan

Allow for congratulations after the ceremony Include family photos We are doing a first look before the ceremony Include evening music / first dance timing

Speeches

Ceremony music

Ceremony hymns and song notes

Use this as a simple place to keep track of ceremony hymns, processional or recessional songs, and reception music notes. Add titles only — no lyrics.

Entrance song

Signing / reflection song

Exit song

Reception entrance

First dance

Your wedding day timeline

Your order of the day

Add your details, then create your order of the day. The timeline will appear here.

Your timeline will appear here after you create your order of the day.

Copy this into a message for your venue, photographer or wedding party. Treat it as a working draft and confirm final timings with your suppliers.

Calm timing

Why IrishWeds adds extra time

Wedding days often involve two locations, rural roads, parking, greetings outside churches, hotel room turnaround, and weather. A calm timeline protects the parts of the day you actually want to enjoy.

Questions

Wedding day timing FAQ

How long should we allow after a church ceremony? +

For a church wedding in Ireland, allow at least 15–25 minutes after the ceremony for congratulations, gathering bags, photos outside the church, and guests moving towards cars or buses. Add more if you expect a large receiving line.

How much extra travel time should we add? +

Use the real journey time, then add 15–30 minutes depending on distance, rural roads, parking and buses. The tool adds this automatically because wedding-day travel rarely runs exactly to Google Maps.

How long do family photos take? +

A small family list can take around 20–25 minutes. A larger list with grandparents, siblings, wedding party and extended family can easily take 35–45 minutes. Nominate one helper who knows both families.

Should speeches happen before or after dinner? +

After dinner is traditional and gives speakers time to settle. Before dinner can work well if speeches are short and you want people to relax during the meal. Split speeches are useful when you want a short welcome before food and fuller speeches later.

What if our ceremony and reception are at the same venue? +

Still allow a transition. Guests need time to leave the ceremony space, congratulate you, collect drinks, and move towards the reception area. The tool adds a smaller movement allowance for same-venue weddings.

Do elopements need this much structure? +

Less structure, yes — but not no structure. Elopements still benefit from clear timing for ceremony, portraits, travel, dinner and any video/photo priorities.

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